Stephenson Family Ties

Perhaps it is our imperfections that make

us so perfect for one another.

from: Emma

by: Jane Austen

Appendicitis has no care for timing or decorum.  As a matter of fact, in this case it seems that it went out of its' way to pick the most inconvenient time to hit my sons lower GI. (or is it the upper GI?)
Monday, 2:15 pm- dear Knox Aaron was born....healthy and weighty...and mom was doing well.
Before the day was thru...Rob landed in the hospital with an appendix that was sure to burst within the next 24 hours....so it had to be taken out!!!
Things I learned this week:
 1.Modern medicine is a great blessing in our life.  3 tiny incisions were made in Robs "ripped" abdomen.(te he) One slice for the miniature camera, one slice for the clippers, and one slice for the mini "gladloc" plastic bag to deposit the foul nonsense of an appendix in...yck!  A few pieces of surgical tape and some recovery time, and Rob found himself home and in his own bed in less than 24 hours.  But boy was he sore!!
And what about those amazing OBGYN's and anesthesiologists??  Gone are the days of much toil and pain and suffering for the mommies of the world as well.  Once again I reminded how grateful I am that Im not a pioneer!  I would have likely lost my son to a ruptured appendix, and my sweet daughter-in-law might not take so kindly to giving us such perfect grandchildren....if did we not enjoy these modern conveniences and blessings!
2. There is nothing more important and sacred and dependable as family:
A 'crisis' struck and family came out of the woodwork to help. Babysitting, bedside company, meals, praying,  cleaning, cooking and comforting all came in great abundance by family...and good friends.
whew!!
3. This MiMi isnt as young or as resilient as I used to be.  4 nights of sleep depravation and hiking in the mornings, knocked me for a loop. but...those quiet nights with our new little Knox....priceless!!
4. Swaddling a baby is nothing like riding a bike...it is a skill that can be forgotten!
5. 8lbs 8oz. never looked so small.
6.  4 yr old big brothers can and do love unconditionally and instantly.  On the other hand, 18mo. olds are clueless and puzzled..