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And Now I See The Moon

ITs DANIELS BIRTHDAY!!!


IF WE DIDN'T HAVE BIRTHDAYS

If we didn't have birthdays, you wouldn't be you.
If you'd never been born, well then what would you do?
If you'd never been born, well then what would you be?
You might be a fish! or a toad on a tree!
You might be doorknob! Or three baked potatoes!
You might be a bag full of hard green tomatoes!!
Or worse than all that...Why, you might be a WASN'T!
A Wasn't has no fun at all. No, he doesn't.
A Wasn't just isn't. He just isn't present.
But you...You ARE YOU!!!And , now isn't that pleasant!
Dr Seuss
Dan with cousin Ryan

Dan,you are a quite little soul. I confess that I dont know you as well as I'd like. But what I do know is that you are a gentleman and a scholar-truly you are!!! And I know that your quietness belies that you are one fun dude!! I've seen you with you siblings and your cousins-you are very well loved by all!! You are kind and wise and fun to be around. We look forward to great things from you! I for one cant wait to see what you stir up!! Have a very happy, happy birthday and and a great, great year!!!!

OUT OF THE MOUTH OF BABES


(this was written by an 8 yr old named Danny Dutton. He wrote if for his third grade homework assignment to 'explain God.')

"One of God's main jobs is making people. He makes them to replace the ones that die, so there will be enough people to take care of things on earth. He doesn't make grown-ups, Just babies. I think because they are smaller and easier to make. That way he doesnt have to take up his valuable time teaching them to talk and walk. He can just leave that to mothers and fathers.

God's second most important job is listening to prayers. An awful lot of this goes on, since some people, like preachers and things, pray at times besides bedtime. God doesnt have time to listen to the radio or TV because of this. Because he hears everything, there must be a terrible lot of noise in his ears, unless he has thought of a way to turn it off.

God sees everything and hears everything and is everywhere which keeps Him pretty busy. So you shouldn't go wasting his time by going over your mom and dad's head asking for something thay said you couldn't have.

Jesus is Gods Son. He used to do all the hard work, like walking on water and performing miracles and trying to teach the people who didnt want to learn about God. They finally got tired of him preaching to them and they crucified him. But he was good and kind, like his father, and he told his father that they didnt know what they were doing and to forgive them and God said ok.

His dad (God) appreciated everything that he had done and all his hard work on earth so he told him he didnt have to go out on the road anymore. He could stay in heaven. So he did. And now he helps his dad out by listening to prayers and seeing things which are important for God to take care of and which ones he can take care of himself without having to bother God. Like a secretary, only more important.

You can pray anytime you want and they are sure to help you because they got it worked out so one of them is on duty all the time.

You should always go to church on Sunday because it makes God happy, and if there's anybody you want to make happy, its God!! Dont skip church to do something you think will be more fun, like going to the beach. This is wrong. And besides the sun doesnt come out at the beach until noon anyway.

If you dont believe in God, besides being an atheist, you will be very lonely, because your parents cant go everywhere with you, like to camp, but God can. It is good to know He's around you when you're scared. In the dark or when you cant swim and you get thrown into real deep water by big kids.

But....you shouldnt just always think of what God can do for you. I figure God put me here and he can take me back anytime he pleases. And....thats why I believe in God."

What I KNOW:I have someone in my family that I sometimes find myself trying to 'explain God' to. Im not very good at it. I just know what I know. Like I know that my husband loves me. I cant explain WHY he loves me, I just know it. Its the same for me and my knowledge of a loving, all knowing Heavenly Father. I know it down to the last sinew in my toes. He has guided and directed my life. He has answered prayers. He has placed people in my path that have made all the difference in my humble life. Where is my 'proof'? Its in the fact that there can be no denying the whisperings of the spirit. (and there have even been bouts of 'loud' chastisements!) When I have put to the test the promise in James 1:5, and sincerely asked, I have been blessed with confirmation of His presence and involvement in my life. I my little insignificant life. Revelation is not dead!! Personal revelation is a gift!!! A gift that everyone can have!!!
I do often find that an eight year old child can and does express themselves better in this conviction than I ever will. Nevertheless, it doesnt make it any less true for me. How grateful I am for my simple testimony of my Savior and my Heavenly Father. Life has great meaning and purpose because of this knowledge. And it has great responsibility as well. "Where much is given, much is expected!"



I NEVER SAW A MOOR
I never saw a moor.
I never saw a sea.
Yet know I how the heather looks,
And what a wave must be.
I never spoke with God.
Nor visited in Heaven;
Yet certain am I of the spot
As if the chart were given.
by Emily Dickinson
HAVE A WONDERFUL SABBATH!!!!


Everybody is sick in our home. Well almost everyone. I am on the cusp of sickness, but Im making a valiant fight.
Im consuming vast quantities of Emergen-C.


What feels like gallons and gallons of it.
And I think it helps.
I think it makes a difference.
Rob and Chels and L have been really sick. (Sadly, they had to cancel a fun trip up north to Bear Lake with Chelseas family.)
Brian is feel'in it too. The rest of us are doing our best to escape the effects of a serious summer cold. Wish us luck and a speedy recovery for those that have succumbed!!

Letting Go


Isnt it interesting that there seems to be all sorts of creative ways to induce us to leave our "baggage" or troubles or 'stuff' behind? When I hike, there are a couple of trails that have a 'rock shrine' somewhere along the way where we are encouraged to pick up a rock and throw it on the pile, thus leaving a worry or making a wish that we hope will come true. Its fun to watch others preform the ritual. Some do it silently, but with care and thoughtfulness. Others laugh and toss and move away. Still others toss a rock and share their experiences and woos with all who share the trail with us. Here I have stumbled on another creative way to do the same. Its much more involved of course, but the theme is familiar.
What would you let go??

FRIDAY FUNNY

AUGUST
The sprinkler twirls.
The summer wanes.
The pavement wears
Popsicle stains.
The playground grass
Is worn to dust.
The weary swings
Creak, creak with rust.
The trees are bored
With being green.
Some people leave
The local scene
And go to seaside
Bungalows
And take off nearly
All their clothes.
-John Updike

Someone Needs Our Help


This blogging world is a really remarkable phenomena. It really is. We surf and we read, then we move on and we sometimes share comments and encouragements. Sometimes we just lurk. We try to improve and hone our 'skills' and try to 'make pretty' and appealing posts. We learn from others, we glean ideas and inspiration. We laugh and cry and often are buoyed up by knowing that there are others out there experiencing the same things. And once in a while you stumble upon a gem of a blog. One that speaks to your soul. A blog that includes great talent in writing, and speaks from the heart. In no time you CARE, and you find yourself visiting most every day! Well, I have found such a site. And I am compelled to share it with you. Though I know that my readership is LOW and I dont have the impact on blog world like many... I now want to do SOMETHING!! So this is my paltry way of reaching out and trying to help. Please take the time to read this blog. Read about a remarkable family and of the trials they have now found themselves dealing with. Learn of the strength of faith and human kindness. Be inspired. Last night I woke up in the middle of the night...(to do my potty run) and the first thing I thought about was this family. I prayed for them, again, at 2:00am in the morning. They are strangers. I dont know any of them. But I am in awe of them and draw inspiration from them. Give it a try!! You'll see what I mean.
HERE is where the story begins. Read for a bit, you wont be disappointed, only inspired!!!
(this explains the little "NieNie" botton on my sidebar as well-click there too, if you want to help!!)

How About An Update??

My Builder: He got a haircut, and had a birthday. Presidential duties with the young men have been an enjoyable experience thus far. He has been enjoying viewing the Olympics; favorite thing to watch...hummmmm...maybe track and field?!?! Wishes the presidential elections were OVER!!! Somehow he is getting better and better looking the older he gets. Its just NOT fair!!!






Rob and Chelsea and L: Phlebotomist extraordinaire, and gaining new accounts in the water cooler business. Dreaming of a fixer-upper home project. Chelsea parents lovely "L" and is enjoying a growing clientele of beautiful blogs with her designs!! All the while longing for a place of their own.








Joe and Natalie: Practically running Christensens single-handily. Building a beautiful baby boy and a darling 'nest' (nursery) to put him in. It seems that they have been entertaining a lot lately too. They have fun family that comes down from the north. I think they are doing some house hunting as well. Joe cant keep his hair short enough on the top of his head or grow a satisfactory amounts of facial hair. Natalie's little belly bump is SWEET!!!









Cousin Lynley: HATES, HATES, HATES her job. She is on the hunt for something new!! Loves to grocery shop for me--bless her toes. Has done Vegas more than I, this summer! Shes a great co-conspirator in watching Alias with me!! She's also my walking spell checker (when my Builder isnt around.)








Anna: (22)Its official-'orders' from the president have been received-shes not coming home until Jan. 28th 2009!! UGH Shes on a bike and lov'in it. She's getting too thin. (worried mom here) Houston has stolen her heart. And shes never, never, been happier!! Go girl!!








Clark: (19)Seems to have adjusted to the MTC. Has noted that there are more temple endowed people under one roof there than any other place, anywhere!!! Thats why the Spirit is so strong there. He feels it. Spanish is coming along now. He misses junk food. (not his family-tear) He leaves for Chile in a month from today!!Plus, I'll never know another kid who writes home asking for the MORE COMPLICATED form of directions for a camera!!??!! Oh Clarky-only you!!!!








Brian: (17) Feels he made the right decision in going to the new high school this year. Hes making some great changes. Basketball is motivating him. He thinks he "needs" some fancy shoes that will strengthen his jumping skills??? He did some sailing at the lake and LOVED it!! He adores his nephew. And he likes having access to a car at all times. He is enjoying his job at the Marriott-and gaining some good skills. (Plus a significant discount for his parents!! yahooooo!!!)There can also be no exaggerating when I say that hes grown another 2-3 inches in the last month!!



Me: Always enjoying my 3 days (or more) a week of getting coral dust between my toes. Loving being a grandma!!! Loving being the mother of amazing missionaries and all talented children. Grateful to the be the friend and lover and eternal companion of the most amazing man. Being 'party director' for our ward is fun too!!!






What I KNOW:Life is GOOD!!!!! I am GREATLY blessed!!!

Smooth Sailing!!!

Brian has no love for the camera in his face, but I think he has developed a love that is new-for sailing!!!
Our beautiful Sand Hollow Reservoir was where our youth met last week for an activity. And instead of the ski boat drawing Bri's attention, it was this fun catamaran that sucked him in.
He wanted to learn everything there is to learn about it. And Raoul Hevuia was more than willing to share his talents and knowledge.


Thank you Raoul Heviua for sharing your boat!!

Once again it was a glorious evening on the Lake! Ah....summertime!!
THIS WEEK:

Im lov'in the SMELL of: someones deodorant-it actually smells good as we hike along a trail behind them. Cupcakes. Pot roast!

I'm lov'in the TASTE of: This week its been all about cinnamon bears..again!! Also Triskets with a dill pickle and melted cheese on top!! And Pepsi yes, thats right, I've fallen off the wagon. whew, it feels so good to confess, and come out of the closet.

Im lov'in the FEEL of: clean floors, and footrubs, and a soft water shower. And, the mornings are significantly cooler now!! Ahh.....

Im Lov'in the IDEA of: Brain enjoying school; biking riding with my Builder; walking out of a movies we dont really like.

Im Lov'in the SIGHT of: the first pictures of Clark from the MTC; My Builder- he get better look'in the older he gets!! (it really doesnt seem fair does it?!?!?) "L" is amazing the older and wiser he becomes.

I'm Lov'in the SOUND of: Chelsea sing'in to "L" ; the ALAIS theme song and soundtrack!! The new music on my playlist; thunder (again!)

No Apoligies-for more pics of hiking









Bless this Simple Mom in her expression of homemaking and the longing for a home from the pages of magazines. Here I am, an OLD mom, and it took me years to learn this, and Im still trying to learn. Enjoy her post and insights. Its time to relax and re-prioritize.

Houston Texas Sends Its Love!!

Sister Dubose, Magaly Fleytas, Me!!!
Sister Dubose, Magaly, Michael, Me!!!
The Waller District. The one on the end by me is our D.L. Elder Barkdull.
These are the bugs that are everywhere and they are LOUD!! This one's among the many dead ones!!
This is Boshell. We were teaching her for a while but we dont see her anymore. It was her birthday!!!
Back to my roots, one year later!! This is the Spring Creek house!!
Exchanges with Hma. Nealey!! This was my room!! Notice my name on the poster!! Its in pink.

FRIDAY FUNNY

A TIME TO CELEBRATE!!

My Builder
My man
My joy...
Is having a birthday today!!!

He deserves every grand accolade that I could dig up for him.....
But I wont risk sounding too sappy.... and thus embarrassing him.
But I'll tell you a few things I know:
(also known as butterball)
I have it on good authority that he was the perfect baby.

Im sure he was a delightful, rambunctious toddler.
(cathy and butterball)
I've gleaned from his sisters and brothers that he was a pesky, meddlesome adolescent.
Im sure he was a diligent, hardworking, trustworthy, industrious young adult.

What I Know: He is now the most devoted, loving, generous, faithful, kind and funny man alive. And darn handsome to boot!!! And he's ours to love back and appreciate.

I love you madly babe!!! You're my one true love!!!

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUILDER BOB!!!!

Look'in GOOD for 49!!!!

49 years ago-something momentous happened in these the United States. We admitted another state to our union. (it was also-remarkably, the same year I was born. So, so long ago) On this date we had Hawaii officially join as the 50th state. (Did you know that Hawaii is now the most isolated population center on the face of the earth. Hawaii is 2,390 miles from California; 3,850 miles from Japan; 4,900 miles from China; and 5,280 miles from the Philippines.) How the heck did anyone find it in the first place???
I realize that to some folks, Hawaii has become a common place occurrence in their lives. (lucky, lucky them) To others it is home. Or home away from home. Hawaii is all sorts of things to all sorts of people. But everyone hopefully agrees that Hawaii is a wonderful place to be. How about these stats: The highest recorded temperature is 96' F (Honolulu Airport), but temperatures over 92' F generally occur only once or twice a year. The lowest temperature (under 3000 feet altitude) is 56' F. Temperatures under 60' F may occur but rarely more than once a year. Average daytime temp. (July) is 82' F. Average daytime temperature in January is 72' F. Heaven...almost heaven....
It actually was home for my mother and my brother and I when we were quite young. We lived there for several months while my dad was serving (duty) in Vietnam in 1966. I don't recall to much about that time....but we do have some fun pictures of us there. I do remember the volcano with the red hot lava flowing by. I remember looking down into the ocean from the safety of a pier, and watching an octopus slither along the sandy bottom of the sea, all the while changing color as it passed over rocks and shells and what have you. Fascinating!! I remember our little bungalow was on a cul-de-sac and that there were geckos on the ceilings sometimes. That's about the sum of my recollections of that time in my life on the glorious iles of the sea.

Hawaii was also the home of my brother and his wife and young baby Joshua, for a while. The Navy took them there. I believe if they had full opportunity, they'd move back there once again.

I have been fortunate enough to have visited the resplendent islands a few more times since being a small child. My mom and dad took us again when we were much older. It was between semesters of my first year of college. We went to Maui this time. We went with another family and their teenagers. I remember mostly being concerned with how I looked to the cute boys who were with us. I spent a great deal of time and effort working on my tan. I also know that it was Christmas time when we went, so my dad planned ahead. He smoked a whole turkey and somehow transported to the condo in Maui, so that we could have a homemade turkey dinner for Christmas!! Then I remember
browning my bod some more. There was also hiking to lush Hana Falls. I remember Lahaina and the little shops and eating yummy seafood. But what I remember most vividly is how I felt when it was time to leave. Waiting in the airport, with our beautiful, fragrant leis around our necks, and my perfectly tanned body, knowing that I personally, was headed back to the wicked cold of Rexburg Idaho, to finish out my freshmen year. I was SAD, and feeling gloomy and in fact, even a little teary. And my last vivid recollection of this particular trip to Hawaii..... I could only console myself with the knowledge that at least I would be returning to that god-forsaken place with what I felt was going to be the very best tan in Idaho!!! At least I had that!! (and some really good memories to boot!!)


It was many years before I was able to return once again to these splendid islands. This time it was with my Builder and our family. (minus Joe who was in Japan) who by the way, will NEVER let us forget that we without him. I guess we 'owe him big time.'
Anyway-this trip was a blast too!!
We did Oahu and Maui.
We did the Polynesian Cultural Center.



We did the beaches.
We did some hiking.
We did some shopping and relaxing.
We did Pearl Harbor.

We did the Pineapple Farm and some more exploring.
We did a lot of nothing at all, just holding down the beach towels on the sand.
We snorkeled with sea turtles.
And I fulfilled a longtime dream of para-sailing!! WOW WOW WOW

We had a wonderful, marvelous, glorious time.

What's not to love about Hawaii????!!!!
(except for maybe the high food prices)

So here's to wishing Hawaii a very, very happy commemorative birthday. I'm so glad they joined on.
How lucky we are that we get to call her our own!!!!!!!
What I Know: I will return to their shores someday again!! I must!! Maybe for Hawaii's 50th???

Side bar-One of the best books I read as a young adult had to have been HAWAII by James Michener. Its a fascinating tale. Beginning at the creation of the islands, to its people and culture and colonization and such. Well worth the time. Be warned though- Its a lengthy tome.