Stephenson Family Ties The Barn Burnt Down
And Now I See The Moon

FUN FOR BOOK NERDS!

.One of my new year resolutions is going to be to read more books! I think this idea will be a fun way to kick off the year, and to get us aquainted with what others are reading. (can I say here how twisted I am- whenever I write the word 'others' I think of LOST!)
Lets try this:
1. Grab your nearest book.
2. Open the book to page 123.
3. Find the fifth sentence.
4. Post the text of the next 3 sentences on your blog along with these instructions.
5. Tag 10 different people. (5 will do too)
(not all the book nerds I know have blogs.But I still choose you. So just post to my 'comments' line on this post.)

"More specifically, the key insight was that two elements that appear to be simultaneous to one observer will not appear to be simultaneous to another observer who is moving rapidly. And there is no way to declare that one of the observers is really correct. In other words, there is no way to declare that the two events are truly simultaneous."
Einstein His Life and Universe by: Isaacson

Tagged-
1.Natalie
2.Chelsea
3.Christy
4.Lindsay K.
5.Ann H.
6.Judy
7.Bro.Joe
8.Debbie
9.Dad
10.Cathy E

ANOTHER YEAR OLDER!

(Robby with Uncle Scott)
Count your many blessings my love! Beginning with your awesome parents! tehetehe-your beautiful and charming wife; your darling Bubba, your family, your testimony, your snow!!You can continue the list....
I love you and wish you all the happiness that your young life will bring.
Happy Birthday Robby!!

SWEET SUNDAY

Mama Bear got her own personal email form Anna last night! (Anna has often endearingly called me 'Mama Bear"- the girl sure knows how to tug at the heart strings.) She was given a few minutes of computer time while her companion was in a meeting(?)
Could it be that when I send good thoughts out into the Universe-good things come right back? I was dutifully studying my Sunday school lesson last night and writing a future post about my blessings and my anticipation of the new year...and then low and behold..."I've got mail" from Anna. Wow!! A little post-Christmas present.
Sister Stephenson reports of another baptism, and the spiritual experiences that attended the occasion. Our new member of the Church is is a Chinese gentleman. She jokingly mentions that it sure would be great to have about 10+ more new members who speak Chinese, then they could have a branch!! Gotta love this girl!
I ask for your prayers in her behalf. She says she's been fighting a cold/sickness for 3 weeks now!! Enough is enough!!
Sundays are when I email Anna back, and Im wishing that my fingers could fly across the keyboard as fast as hers must travel. I love telling her about all that's going on here at home. She has confirmed that receiving pictures really is successful now. We can send all we'd like. Bless you all that do watch and care for her in your prayers and thoughts. As a mother of a missionary I can say emphatically how much this is appreciated. I can feel it, and I KNOW she feels it too.















1. Bake something
2. Go to the library- read something!
3. Write a letter to someone you care about or to a politician about something you care about!
4. Go for a walk- notice things!
5. Create something with your own hands.
6. Have a tea party or a hot chocolate party
7. Volunteer somewhere.
8. Write about the best gifts you've ever received
9. Babysit grandchildren.
10. Take a nap and dream!

this is the short list





is for zucchini


Look at that!!! Even in the early 70's zucchini took over gardens and grew out of control!! Imagine that- Once a super food, always a super food. And yes, that is my little brother and I, poising for pictures with mega veggies. This is when we lived in Silver Spring, Maryland. This was a great neighborhood and a very distinctive home. We had a very large yard and large trees with lots of grass to mow, and a city park right next door.
Its strange what a person will remember about a time and place of their childhood. I have lots of memories surrounding this house. But because this is "z" day,(Im done, Im done, Im done with the alphabet!!) Im going to write a little about this garden in Maryland. My folks became gardening enthusiast at this time in their lives. They must have been in their late 40's,(My age) I remember seed catalogs and books on the table. They started a compost heap, that was stirred and and turned and had garbage and yard refuse dropped on it often. For my dad this pile was a science project. For mom it was probably a good way to practice being a little 'green.' Fresh food was/is always appreciated in our home and the garden produced delicious, homegrown food, plus being a great excuse to be outdoors. They must have had decent success-thus the huge zucchinis!!
The only other vivid memories I have of that garden would be that it was located behind the garage and I believe it was an additional piece of property that my folks purchased as a second thought. Lastly, I remember they battled frequently with a bug problem. The Japanese Beetle to be exact. It was a beautiful bug-metallic blues and greens on its 'shell' and wings. My folks bought traps and would catch quart sized buckets full of them!!It was both 'gross' and fascinating at the same time!! Ahh.. the memories.
I bet everybody has a favorite zucchini memory or antidote!!

BIRTHDAY TIME AGAIN


Here was a baby like no other baby I'd seen before. No other baby could rival your 'baby fat' stage!! You brought joy and delight then- and you were a delight when you came to St George to give it a try. We loved having you in our home for a time!!! You have been a good friend to Robby and a wise, kind example to us all. I sure do look forward to the next get-to-gether, so we can visit again. Have a great birthday and a great year J.J.!!! JJ and robby

MEMORIES!!



Natalie made us a delicious breakfast- yum!




GIFT OF THE WORLD-GIFT OF THE SPIRIT

Our Christmas phone call with Anna was amazing!
Her demeanor on the phone was peaceful, calming, and delightful. We filled the 59 minutes allotted to us with great ease. 10 of us visited with her and told her they loved her and were so proud of her. She emanated perfect serenity and joy. She had a formal, eloquent manner about her. Anna was filled with gratitude to all of us that support her so generously. She expressed a degree of unease in how well she was 'taken care of' this Christmas season. I believe she felt overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and generosity,and a little bit uncomfortable when she compared what she received, in contrast to her fellow missionary sisters she lives with.
Anna is perfectly content where she is. There was no longing for home. No mushiness, or even a desire to hear about things that are happening here, that are of no real importance.
The spirit comforted me and we visited with ease and expressed our feelings with clarity. Our goodbye was only difficult in that it will be 4 more months until I hear her beautiful voice again. I felt her testimony in her reserved tones and in her clearly desiring to follow every rule. Anna is completely centered on one thing-how to best reach her fellowman with the truths of the Gospel. Giving of herself a 110%, with complete obedience and love. Her growth in maturity is already quite apparent in these first 5 months. Will I recognize this amazing woman in 13 months?
It's amazing to me what this inspired program does for the missionary, for their family, and for the world! I am truly grateful that I have had children that desire to serve their Savior and mankind, in such a manner. Though it is hard to be apart - the blessings are innumerable for such a sacrifice. What an amazing gift is our daughter and this Christmas phone call! (My cup is full!!!)



The worldly gift that is the biggest hit this year? Hands down its ROCK BAND!
It took a bit of persuasion on Clarks' part to get me on board with yet another 'electronic' game. But Clark is good good at persuasion- and he succeeded in convincing me that it would be a fun thing to have in our home. And he was RIGHT!!
What a kick this game really is!!! Our basement has turned into a premiere concert site! All we have to add is our own 'talent.' There's a drum set, a microphone and a guitar! And nobody is more surprised than me (besides Bob) to see that I could or would pick up a microphone and sing!!! I have-I enjoyed it-and I did it in front of others!! Christmas miracles do happen!! The same miracles happened to to my two oldest boys! We witnessed them singing their hearts out down there in the basement. Robby became hoarse!! Joe lost all inhibitions and tried to out sing Natalie!! (dream on my love) Drums were pounded, and the guitar was strummed with fervour. What a riot!!! Our basement was rock'in well after midnight last night!!
The watches and cameras, clothes and music and books and all the other gifts, took a back seat this year,to make room for the Rock Band in the basement.
Thanks Santa-for the great memories!!


is for YIKES!(the things that scare or startle me)












*I am Legend- its been a LONG time since I've seen such a scary movie!!!




*How fast time flies.

*I need to baby proof my house again- Lachlan in on the move!!

*The thought of being pushed into my pool, full of ice cold water, sends dread to my soul.


*Poor Michael Jackson- who I adored so much...what went wrong?












*Being awaken from a deep sleep with a gentle touch. (ask the kids; I fly to the roof)

*Jumping from an airplane. Clark did it, I could have, its not for me.

*Dentists



*Hilary Clinton







*Rattlesnakes and cockroaches- even Disney couldnt take the 'edge' off the creepiness of a cockroach. Even if they can clean up a nasty, dirty tub. (Enchanted)

*Why oh why did it take me until I was 40+ to learn to lower my chin when I have my picture taken??!!

*Im getting old. And let me share with you how I now know this to be true. Bob and I went out the other night to do a little Christmas shopping. When we were done, we wanted to grab a bite to eat. Bob pulled into the Village Inn parking lot. I said nothing because I was just grateful that he made the decision on where to go this time. We had a surprisingly tasty meal. We lingered and visited and took our time. When we got back into the car, Bob made the comment about how nice it was to eat in a quiet resturant where one could 'spread out' and not be disturbed, and where we could hear each other talk. Then he looked at me with a strange face and said, "oh my gosh, we're sounding like our parents!" How did this happen?? YIKES!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!

A very wise apostle has said: There is a special spirit, an actual spirit that envelops the earth at this time. However much it may not differ from the spirit that is available at any time of the year, at this time of the year it seems to be prevalent and present in an intensity not known at other times of the year. It becomes so forceful as to have real, tangible, noticeable effect on people who otherwise seem to avoid, or at least disregard, the Spirit of the Lord…”


Please understand, that I haven’t been immune to this persuasive spirit. I do believe that such a spirit does envelops the earth at this time. I just think Im longing to feel it more deeply.

This GREAT book will be the instrument in helping me ‘work through’ and better understand what’s happening in my head as far as Christmas is concerned. Im going to share with you, in this post, what Im trying to learn.

Jeffery Marsh has differentiated 3 levels of Christmas. You may be interested in what they are. I know that I was.

1st Level- The Santa Claus Level
This is where you find Christmas trees, food, fun, and bright shiny packages and decorations, shopping and parties. Its where I eat too much and spend too much money and probably do too much, but enjoy every minute of it!! ( Did I EVER go through this stage??? With the exception of too much food, Im not sure I visited this level.) But… when the Santa Clause mentality is over, and there’s a mess to clean up and pine needles in the carpet to deal with, and Im recommitting to dieting once more, this would be when I notice that things are still the same. People(and sometimes me) are still hungry and lonely.

2nd Level- Silent Night Level
This is where one finds great joy in the beautiful Christmas Carols and we feel some wonder and awe when gazing on the Nativity, with the shepards and star and think of the wise men that headed towards Bethlehem. Angels are singing!! But… there is still worry and sadness about the world and its fallen state.(there just has to be more!) There is so much sorrow. The problem here is that we're keeping Christ in the manger, and not finding the mature Savior, and thus still feeling disappointment and empty in the end.

3rd Level- is the level of the adult Christ
(Im going to quote right from the book) “It is here we find lasting joy, lasting hope, and lasting peace. This level teaches us of charity, of love for the unlovable and of forgiveness for our enemies. It is the adult Christ who gives us a perfect example and asks us to follow Him. Accepting that invitation is the way- the only way- to celebrate Christmas all year and all life long.”

So there you have my Christmas thoughts.
*If each year I attempt to practice charity and love...
*If I can picture my Savior, not the infant, as the centerpiece of my Christmas...
*If I find the symbolism in the trappings of Christmas…. (heck, Santa himself is a symbol of love and joy and kindness of Christmas and the Christmas Spirit!!)
*If I could understand what I get in exchange for giving up the Santa Level of Christmas, I could then look forward to the greater discoveries!!
*If I do these things- I think I know, that even at my age, I can find and have the “little kid’ feelings again about Christmas.
*If I understood Christmas at all, I would find that in exchange for Christmas past or that “fantasy” Christmas, the right Christmas will be the most excellent of all gifts. My eyes will be opened wider, my understanding greater for the things that my Savior has done and what I may do for Him.
Then the true spirit of Christmas can envelop me and my family and friends whom I love.
That is my wish. (for what it is worth)

Another Birthday!!!

Happy Birthday Dude!
We think you are one awesome young man. Yes- I can still call you that,cause you are! Julie is lucky to have you, and we are lucky to know you and to call you family. Wesley and Olivia are blessed to call you dad. And all of us that are lucky enough to have your cabinets in our homes are twice blessed. Those of my boys that were able to work along side of you for part of their summer were lucky beyond what they understand at this point in their young lives.To see a hard working, skilled craftsman in action, is a rare gift in this day and age. Thank you Scott. May you always find happiness and joy in your own backyard. (we want to keep you close)
Merry Christmas to you too!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!


Spencer Hill
Dec. 24







Life's Gems
1. Living on earth is expensive, but it does include a free trip around the sun every year.
2. Birthdays are good for you; the more you have the longer you live.
3. Many of us go to our grave with our music still inside of us.
4. You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
5. Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
6. A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.
7. Happiness comes through doors you didn't even know you left open.
8. We could learn a lot from crayons: Some are sharp, some are pretty, some are dull, some have weird names, and they're all different colors.... But they all have to learn to live in the same box.
Happy, happy birthday to you!!!




That has got to be one of the best darn smiles there is!! Keep on smiling Spence!!
I wish we lived closer to one another so we could all party together!!!

SACRED SUNDAYS

An amazing phone call to a Houston radio station
FM 89.3
(thanks Becky for sharing this)remember to turn off my music below.


The convalescing seems to be over here. Brian is repairing quickly. He just wants to get back up to the slopes! Clark was 'out' for about 6 hrs after having his 3 wisdom teeth removed, and is now up on his feet with no swelling, and no pain! Whats with that??!! He is just relieved that he'll be able to eat Christmas turkey!!

Christmas Past


Robby, cousin Matt, Joe and baby Anna 1986


is for Xero.
dryness;dry; xeroderma






Ask all the experts and they'll all tell you- the secret is to moisturize!!
for a desert to bloom
for a face to ward off wrinkles
for hands and feet to stay soft and smooth
for lips to remain kissable
for writers to keep the 'juices' flowing
for a dry throat-drink
JUST ADD WATER!!!
Understand,Im not spending a great deal of energy searching for the fountain of youth in hopes that it could ward of my tendancy towards age spots and wrinkles and the development of pronounced veins. And I know that there is no miracle drink to cure what ails me or that will give me unlimited energy. (though Pepsi seems to fill the bill sometimes)
We can always find 'experts' that will tell us there is good cause to spend our money on their products, that promise to rejuvneate our bodies.
But what I really need and what this world really needs too, is more longing for the happiness and contentment and peace that only Jesus can bring. "But who so ever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst.." This is where success and fulfilment are really found. It is here that we can quench the everpresent longing for things that are not of this world. Perfection of our souls can only be found at the well of living waters. The world is parched; which is manifested in the yearning we see around us for 'something more.' I am happy to report that there is an 'expert'among us!! It is our Savior, who has been called the wellspring of life everlasting! It is our Savior who said- "If any man thirst, let him come unto Me, and drink!!" (and thirst no more)
This is the water I should be longing for. This 'living water' that truely can refresh us all and enliven our minds and souls. I'd like to be more than just 'skin deep. My outward body my be drying up and loosing shape and form, no matter how much moisture I apply. But I know that if I spend more time at the 'spring' of my Savior, then I will find rivers of living water that are filled with truth and light and peace which can be found in no other place.
To heck with the wrinkles! (gulp) Im going to try to spend more energy in filling my cup with the real life giving water. Searching for more truth and light and knowledge that my loving Heavenly Father and Jesus have promised me I can have, if I but ask and expend the energy in that direction. So- a little less time at the cosmetics counter, a little more time for study and prayer.


(this whole post has come off sounding a little like a new years resolution? how about that?)
Old man winter didn't have to show off today by making a noticeable appearance!!! I, for one was enjoying the milder weather--up 'til now!!!!
As soon as the calender says its winter, the old geezer shows up and drops the temps 20 degrees!!! Darn him!! How dare he raise his ugly head on the very first day of the season!!!

Official 1st Day of Winter!! ba humbug!!!!





is for-I Hate Winter!!!


Winter stinks! Iknow,I don't sound very grown-up, but the older I get the more attaiment I am in my conviction!Winter is for the birds! (Oh thats funny, even they head south!) I don't know whats happened to me? I jokingly tell people that I don't truly thaw out and become human again until the temps reach 80!! It's true! Does the blood really thin? The romance of winter has left. It doesn't exist.
I had great winters growing up in Maryland and New York. The most memorable winters being those of New York. We lived in a suburb of Albany,called Guilderland.Our family lived there for several years. I remember those winters with great fondness. The mounds of snow that the plows left behind stood many,many feet above my small head. The schools were closed down often. The wind blew snow horizontally. The pond down the street froze so hard that we could ice skate on it for months! Sledding hills were as numerous as the elves in Santas workshop. The bus stop seemed so far away on mornings when wind and sleet and snow were raging down. But mostly I remember the wonder of the thigh high snow. I had more wide open spaces to explore than most young tom-girls could dream of exploring. A golf course was being built behind our house. It had been a dense forest before the clearing began. Even so, there seemed to be plenty of the forest left with the addition of wide open spaces in between. I found these open expanses of pristine snow an ideal place to find and follow the perfect impressions of animal tracks. There were so many varieties of paw prints. There were so many different kinds of creatures living just outside my window!
I must have spent hours and hours out there exploring and tracking those critters that I loved so much. It was a magical time for me in that winter wonderland. The world glittered and shined and was clean and new.
Of course I heard the complaints of my folks about the headaches of all this snow. There was the worry of too much snow on the roof or too much snow to shovel from the long driveway. I can of course relate to this completely now, as a 'grown-up.' But for me, it was always a wonderland and an outdoor adventure in Guilderland!!
There was always snow in the winter in Maryland too. Snowmen and sledding and warm cozy sweaters knitted by my mom are the good memories I have of that time in my life.
We moved to California when I was a teenager. I don't remember missing the snow or longing for it, ever. I do recall a time when there was a very rare storm that brought snow to the hills of Los Altos. Friends took a small pickup truck and drove to the hills and filled the bed with snow. The snow was brought back to the high school and a snowball fight ensued. An hour or so of fun was had by the resourseful. It is in California that I learned to ski. In the Serria Mountains at Tahoe! I have now learned that California sking is quite unique. Our youth groups could and would ski in shorts and tee shirts. I don't ever remember being cold in California.
Then came my college years and my move to Idaho and Utah. Once again, I had winter.It was here that I was intoduced to a whole different kind of skiing. Here I found amazing mountains and resorts and some mighty cold and uncomfortable skiing. Toes froze inside uncomfortable-no torturing-ski boots. (Kids these days have no idea) Wind burned my face and my fingers froze. Winter took on a whole new meaning in Rexburg, Idaho!! (what was I thinking?!!)
As a reflect on it now, I am positive that it is these 2 winters that ruined me for life-as far as cold tolerance is concerned. The hair in your nose froze the instant you stepped outside. Spit froze, as did water thrown from a cup out the front door- before it hit the ground. Its really true- 'cause I tried it and saw it with my own eyes. I had the warmest coat money could buy and still the bitter cold would freeze me to the core. And oh that wind; there is nothing like the howlling wind hat tore across those wide open plains and potato fields. NOTHING!
Logan, Utah wasn't a whole lot better. I guess my first clue should have been to take heed in just how close it was to the Idaho border! duh! Slip sliding all over campus, rushing to get in line at the Union Center, for a huge, warm slice of homemade bread with honeybutter and hot chocolate. ahhhhhh... I was willing to TRY enjoying outdoor activities during the winter, ie. snowmobeling, and skiing and snowshoeing, and even ice fishing. But as I've already stated, it was all quickly losing its romance and any of the fun factor.
Once I was married, the well of reserve patience for cold,was all but dried up and blown away. I would not choose to be outdoors in the winter. I guess our winters in Oregon were the best. Some mornings there would be a thin sheet of ice on the pond, but it didn't last long. It sure could rain there, but the winters were wonderfully mild.
Coming back to Salt Lake was the straw that broke this camels back. (oh to be a camel) Having young kids, lots of snow, a driveway to shovel, boots, gloves, hats, coats, mittens and scarves to deal with. Runny noses, whining, puddles by the back door...I didn't want to do it any more!!!
Now Im in the desert, a glorious red rock desert, but guess what??? It gets COLD in the winter! Darn it!!!!
I think I may be ready for a move to the equator!!! Poor Bob.

CLEANING HOUSE- a photo essay

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BEFORE-this one really took guts for me to post!! Im embarrassed!!

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Its not House Beautiful, but it is home.